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		<title>Beautiful Nails</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 09:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This guide will give you directions for nail care, but may not have the same direction and hands-on experience offered by a Professional School of Cosmetology. You can dry nails with a hair dryer or similar device at a low speed at a moderate temperature. Do your hands positioned under the heat source for at [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=322&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/beautiful-nails1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-323" title="Beautiful Nails1" src="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/beautiful-nails1.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>This guide will give you directions for nail care, but may not have the same direction and hands-on experience offered by a Professional School of Cosmetology. You can dry nails with a hair dryer or similar device at a low speed at a moderate temperature. Do your hands positioned under the heat source for at least three minutes and then sit still, touch nothing, and wait a minute or two to avoid stains or smears that will ruin your efforts.</p>
<p>You can use the dryer and sit still, touch nothing and wait at least five minutes to creating lasting results that will make your manicured nails look their best.<br />
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<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>Steps of Nail Care: </strong></span><br />
1 &#8211; Fill tray with warm water and sudsy liquid (the trick is to water at the <a href="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/beautiful-nails-22.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-328" title="Beautiful Nails 2" src="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/beautiful-nails-22.jpg?w=136&#038;h=150" alt="" width="136" height="150" /></a>correct temperature to soften the skin without being<br />
too hot to touch)<br />
2 &#8211; Place one hand in the bowl and let it soak time for a few minutes<br />
3 &#8211; If you give someone else a manicure, you can use oil or Moisturizer for massage one hand while the other is soaking<br />
4 &#8211; Remove soaking hand and pat dry time by hand towel<br />
5 &#8211; Place other hand in tray soak time for a few minutes<br />
6 &#8211; During the second hand is soaking, you should carefully begin trimming nagelriemen that form around the edges of the<br />
nail itself (NOTE: Be careful what you do, so you do not cut too close and at the end of the skin to bleed. If your time and<br />
trim slowly with small strokes, you good.)<br />
7 &#8211; If your timing is perfect, you will be finished cutting the nagelriemen that before the first hand gets wrinkled from being in<br />
the hot water too long. (Hint: Try not to hurry the cuticle trimming process to make your timing work. Instead, try to<br />
remember to check off on the time course of hand midway through the cutting nagelriemen. If the water is cold or the<br />
hand shows hints of wrinkling skin that is your cue to stop the operation and weeks pat hand dry with hand towel, apply<br />
some lotion and go back to the trimming procedure.)<br />
8 &#8211; If you&#8217;ve finished trimming nagelriemen on both hands, make sure all loose skin is removed from nail area. Begin to<br />
polish nails with clear base coat by applying a thin layer as smoothly and carefully as possible. Trying to hold on Polish<br />
nails alone. If you accidentally too much or get extra polish on skin around nails, use a cotton swab dipped in nail polish<br />
remover light for your mistake.<br />
9 &#8211; After applying base coat to both hands, choose Polish color and repeat the previous procedure starting with the same<br />
side you started with last time. Follow the guidelines described above for the best results.<br />
10 -The next application is a top coat to seal or protection for colored polish. Repeat the previous steps to ensure success<br />
in this process. Remember less is better when it comes to nail polish. Thick layers lead to messy results.<br />
11 &#8211; You have two choices for this process to complete your manicure last.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ralph Waldo Emerson very rightly said, &#8220;One of the most beautiful things in nature is a glance of the eye, but beyond speech, and is the symbol of the physical identity.&#8221; Eye is cosidered as an integral party of one of the beauty and we at times completely ignoring the purpose of. The unhygenic environment [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=321&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/eye-care-tips-1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-319" title="Eye Care Tips 1" src="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/eye-care-tips-1.jpg?w=267&#038;h=300" alt="" width="267" height="300" /></a>Ralph Waldo Emerson very rightly said,<br />
&#8220;One of the most beautiful things in nature is a glance of the eye, but beyond speech, and is the symbol of the physical identity.&#8221;</p>
<p>Eye is cosidered as an integral party of one of the beauty and we at times completely ignoring the purpose of. The unhygenic environment around us along with the inevitable aging deteoriates the beauty of the eyes, unless we make a conscious attempt to provide.</p>
<p><strong>Here are some healthy tips to help make your eyes an asset to you throughout your life. </strong></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>Some valuable tips for Eye Care</strong></span></p>
<p>1) We all have the tendency of forming dark circles just under our eyes. You <a href="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/eye-care-tips-2.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-320" title="Eye Care Tips 2" src="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/eye-care-tips-2.jpg?w=150&#038;h=150" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>can use these dark circles by only two slices of potato over your eyes for 20 minutes. Believe me, you will be pleased with the results once you out of potatoes.</p>
<p>2) Another technique to get rid of dark circles is by applying warm tea<br />
bags on your eyes for 15 minutes. This method also works.<br />
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<p>Here are some healthy tips to help make your eyes an asset to you throughout your life.</p>
<p>Some valuable tips for Eye Care</p>
<p>1) We all have the tendency of forming dark circles just under our eyes. You can use these dark circles by only two slices of potato over your eyes for 20 minutes. Believe me, you will be pleased with the results once you out of potatoes.</p>
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<p>4) Other traditional and well-known solution is to place cucumber slices<br />
on eyelids while relaxing in hot bath. This will be pampering yourself at<br />
the ACME, treat yourself like a queen.</p>
<p>5) To ensure that your eye shadow last all day, apply a layer of concealer<br />
before eye shadow. Add a dash of mascara to your eye lashes to Final<br />
Touch.</p>
<p>6) Last but not least, dont forget to take off all make-up of your face when you go to bed specially from and near your eyes.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Prepare to supercharge your speed and vertical jump Power up your pistons with the Romanian deadlift to jump squat. It&#8217;s more technically challenging than most moves, so you&#8217;ll want to work it in at the start of your workout, says strength coach Jeremy Frisch. The Benefit This move develops explosive strength in your glutes, hamstrings, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=314&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Power up your pistons with the Romanian deadlift to jump squat. It&#8217;s more technically challenging than most moves, so you&#8217;ll want to work it in at the start of your workout, says strength coach Jeremy Frisch.</p>
<p><strong>The Benefit</strong><br />
This move develops explosive strength in your glutes, hamstrings, and lower back muscles, the ones that propel you in running and jumping. Practise it regularly, and that cluster of guys under the basket and in the mogul field will part like the Red Sea.</p>
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1. Stand holding a pair of dumbbells on each side, with your knees slightly bent.<br />
2. Lift your chest and pull your shoulderblades back and down.<br />
3. Maintaining the angle of your knees, push your bum back and lower the weights to your shins.<br />
4. Without pausing, bend at your hips and knees to sink down into a squat, and then explode upwards.<br />
5. Land softly with your knees bent. Do 3-5 sets of 4-6 repetitions, resting for two minutes between sets.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Less work and more life makes Jack a happy boy, in three easy steps Overspend, did we? Christmas presents, parties, festive boozing and January sales all add up to the kind of red letter day from the bank that might lead you, head in hands, to reassess your out-of-control spending habits. Or perhaps your spending [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=311&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Overspend, did we? Christmas presents, parties, festive boozing and January sales all add up to the kind of red letter day from the bank that might lead you, head in hands, to reassess your out-of-control spending habits. Or perhaps your spending problem isn&#8217;t caused by the lack of money at all, but is actually down to lack of time. We&#8217;d all like to have more free time, to spend fewer hours at work and more with our friends and family. Okay, maybe just with our friends. Whatever, it&#8217;s time for you to redress your work/life balance.<br />
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1 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I WILL SAVE $4500 THIS YEAR</strong><br />
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In one month&#8217;s time:</strong> you will have made a mockery of the January sales.<br />
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Your stealth move:</strong> learn to read the retail code.<br />
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Because: </strong>&#8220;You can save yourself a lot of money and regret in the sales if you learn a few tricks of the retail trade,&#8221; says Martin Lewis of <a href="http://monesavingexpert.com/" target="_blank">monesavingexpert.com</a>, with a conspiratorial wink. &#8220;In preparation for the sales, shops often put a red or black dot on the label of a garment to secretly indicate to staff that it&#8217;s going to be lowered in price. If you see this on a full-price item you want to purchase, hold back. You&#8217;ll kick yourself if you buy it and a few days later its been reduced by 50 per cent. Also, always look at the last digit in the price. Large electrical appliance stores sometimes use a price code to secretly communicate to staff, which product models need to be sold as a priority to make way for the new stock. If the price ends in an eight (eg, $19.98), it usually means that the particular model has been discontinued. If the price ends with a seven, the item is usually clearance stock. You should definitely ask for a hefty discount in both cases.&#8221;<br />
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<p><strong>2 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I WILL GET MORE OUT OF MY JOB&#8221;<br />
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<strong>In one month&#8217;s time:</strong> you&#8217;ll have got a pay rise.</p>
<p><strong>Your stealth move: </strong>just ask for it.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> now is a good time of year to ask as March is when a lot of companies review people&#8217;s pay. &#8220;But companies will not shell out money if they don&#8217;t have to,&#8221; says Saira Khan, runner up on The Apprentice and author of PUSH for success (Vermilion, $9.99). &#8220;Many businesses play on the fact that people are too scared to ask for a pay rise. The culture is: if you don&#8217;t ask for it, you won&#8217;t get it. So, of course, you have to ask. When you do, make sure you have prepared evidence to show why you deserve one. Perhaps use phrases like ‘I have demonstrated a consistently high performance and have met all my objectives&#8217; or ‘I have taken on more responsibility in the role than is outlined in my job description and that needs to be recognised in a rise&#8217;.&#8221;<br />
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3 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I WILL LEAVE WORK BY SIX &#8211; AT THE LATEST&#8221;</strong><br />
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In a month&#8217;s time:</strong> You&#8217;ll be able to spend more time with friends and family.</p>
<p><strong>Your stealth move: </strong>don&#8217;t sit down.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> having a sit-down meeting can be a waste of time. &#8220;Keep meetings short and efficient by removing the chairs,&#8221; says Sebastian Bailey, co-author of Give Me Time (Little Brown, $12.99).</p>
<p>Sociologist Allen Bluedorn conducted an experiment where groups of five people were placed in a meeting room to solve the same problem, which demanded at least moderate amounts of creativity and judgement. For half of them there was no furniture in the room, while for the others there was a table and five chairs. The quality of the results was statistically identical for the groups that stood up as for those that sat down. However, the sit-down meetings took, on average, 34 per cent longer.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Eat more, cook more and go on a blender to shrink your gut Who wants to eat salad in January? Unless it comes as an apologetic garnish on the side of a ruddy great meat pie, no one. But it is possible to cook up healthy comfort food very easily without resorting to the M&#38;S [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=306&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Who wants to eat salad in January? Unless it comes as an apologetic garnish on the side of a ruddy great meat pie, no one. But it is possible to cook up healthy comfort food very easily without resorting to the M&amp;S gourmet kitchen range. &#8220;When I was working very long hours as a trainee chef I used to make my own ready meals on my day off,&#8221; says Michelin-starred chef Chris Horridge of The Bath Priory. &#8220;During the cold months it would be a huge pan of simple lamb, beef or pork stew which I would freeze in individual portions and heat up in a saucepan when I got back exhausted. It takes no longer than putting a ready meal in the microwave, but you can make it much healthier if you use lots and veg and pulses in it. It also saves you a lot of money.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>1. THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO COOK FROM SCRATCH&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>In one month&#8217;s time: you&#8217;ll have swapped the speed-dial Pizza Hut for the Jamie Oliver cookbook.</p>
<p>Your stealth move: leave your kitchen a mess before you leave for work.</p>
<p>Because: &#8220;If you deliberately get the healthy, non-perishable food such as brown rice and pulses that you intend to cook that night out from the cupboard, you&#8217;re far less likely to call for a takeaway when you get in from work, when you&#8217;re too tired to think, let alone cook,&#8221; says dietician Lyndel Costain (lyndelcostain.co.uk).<br />
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<p>&#8220;Planning your evening meal before you leave the house means you won&#8217;t be tempted to resort to the default unhealthy option. It also means you already know what missing ingredients to pick up on the way home. Soon cooking will become more the norm.&#8221;</p>
<p>2 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO LOSE MY BEER GUT&#8221;</p>
<p>In a month&#8217;s time: you will have lost as much as 5kg of fat.</p>
<p>Your stealth move: have a starter as well as a main course.</p>
<p>Because: whatever you do, don&#8217;t go on a crash diet or fad eating plan as losing weight quickly is unhealthy and ineffective, according to nutrition specialist Dr Keith Barnard, also involved with Netdoctor. This is because such weight loss tends to be mainly water and muscle rather than fat and so is quickly replaced once your diet stops. &#8220;Start your meal with a crisp fresh salad or a bowl of healthy vegetable soup,&#8221; says Costain. &#8220;Studies show they fill you up, meaning you don&#8217;t need such a big main course or feel the need to indulge in dessert. Therefore, a starter helps you eat fewer kilojoules overall and keeps you feeling satisfied.&#8221;</p>
<p>3 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO GET MY FIVE FRUIT AND VEG A DAY</p>
<p>In one month&#8217;s time: you&#8217;ll have had half a fruit bowl by 9am.</p>
<p>Your stealth move: get rid of your microwave and buy a smoothie maker instead.</p>
<p>Because: drinking smoothies is the easiest and most effective method of getting the right vitamins and minerals in your diet. Nuking food in the microwave is the easiest and most effective method of stripping it of any nutritional value it once had.</p>
<p>&#8220;Fruit and veg. Veg and fruit. It doesn&#8217;t matter which way round they go, so long as you are getting them in your diet, along with popcorn and toast and all the other vital food groups, of course,&#8221; says Richard Reed, co-founder of Innocent drinks in the UK.</p>
<p>&#8220;Each of our smoothies contain your recommended daily intake of fruit, but you can make them at home if you like. For example, try this natural detox which contains lemon for vitamin C, honey for natural antioxidants and energy (try Bee Products Honey Active Manuka &#8211; you can buy it from Woolworths, 500g/$10.25), along with some ginger to help cleanse, purify and make it taste nice.&#8221; It&#8217;s a bit like a posh spa in a bottle.</p>
<p>Ingredients<br />
3 1/2 apples, diced<br />
1/2 banana, mashed<br />
juice from half a lemon<br />
1 spoonful of manuka honey<br />
Ginger (to taste)<br />
Dash of fresh orange juice<br />
Ice cubes</p>
<p>Instructions<br />
Stick the lot in the blender, put the lid on, press go. That&#8217;s it!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Eliminate bad habits the MH way and you won&#8217;t even notice the effort After a heavy festive season, during which you pickled your internal organs in booze and encased them in a new layer of fat, January is everyone&#8217;s detox month &#8211; the &#8220;cold turkey&#8221; after the cold turkey. But the truth is, the New [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=304&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>After a heavy festive season, during which you pickled your internal organs in booze and encased them in a new layer of fat, January is everyone&#8217;s detox month &#8211; the &#8220;cold turkey&#8221; after the cold turkey. But the truth is, the New Year is probably the worst time to force your body to clean up its act. This doesn&#8217;t mean you can continue to swill down pies with both hard liquor and impunity. But it does mean you can ease yourself into cutting back on life&#8217;s naughty niceties.</p>
<p>This should be easier at this time as we tend not to get as hunger during the warmer months. Appetite decreases with heat partly because the body is trying to keep cool. All of the body&#8217;s functions, including digestion, create heat within the body. A body working hard to keep cool will suppress appetite in an attempt to lessen its workload.</p>
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<p><strong><span id="more-304"></span>1 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO FINALLY GIVE UP SMOKING&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong>In a month&#8217;s time: </strong>you&#8217;ll be on just two &#8220;social cigarettes&#8221; on a night out.</p>
<p><strong>Your stealth move:</strong> think of all the money going up in smoke.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> if the health implications of smoking don&#8217;t encourage you to give up, try thinking about the financial ones. Main brand cigarettes now cost more than $10 for a packet of 20 and even more than that in the flash bars you might be frequenting.</p>
<p>If you cut down from 20-a-day to just five-a-day you&#8217;d save yourself $2738 over the course of a year. Quit altogether and you&#8217;ll have around $3650 in your back pocket instead of a pack of Dunhills.</p>
<p>Although, instead of carrying it around you might want to use it to clear that massive overdraft you&#8217;ve run up on fags, pay for an engagement ring or just blow it on the gee-gees. Your choice. Ring the Quitline 131 848 or visit <a href="http://quitnow.info.au/" target="_blank">quitnow.info.au</a> for more information and advice on the best ways to kick the habit.<br />
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2 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO BE MORE POSITIVE&#8221;</strong><br />
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In a month&#8217;s time:</strong> you will look and feel happier.<br />
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Your stealth move: </strong>avoid the moaning sessions.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> &#8220;Collective moaning can start out as cathartic and bring about a ‘we&#8217;re in it together&#8217; camaraderie,&#8221; says life-coach Yehuda Shinar. &#8220;But it can quickly reach a tipping point where it becomes unhelpful and destructive. A pessimistic outlook is often a self-fulfilling prophecy. Avoid group sessions you think are based on cynicism and negativity and your mood will lift, making you ultimately more successful.&#8221;</p>
<p>Want proof? In an experiment by psychologist Martin Seligman at the University of Pennsylvania in the US a group of optimists and pessimists were recruited to be salesmen. By the second year of the experiment, the optimists were outselling the pessimists by 57 per cent.</p>
<p><strong>3 THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO CUT DOWN ON DRINK&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong>In a month&#8217;s time:</strong> you won&#8217;t have to lie when your GP asks you how many units you put away a week</p>
<p><strong>Your stealth move:</strong> don&#8217;t give up completely.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> that&#8217;s just too hard and will make you miserable to the point that you fall off the wagon big-style. Instead, alter your social habits so that the pub is not the default option. &#8220;Commit to not going to the pub at lunchtimes,&#8221; advises Dr Dan Rutherford, GP and member of the medical panel for <a href="http://netdoctor.co.uk/" target="_blank">netdoctor.co.uk</a><a href="http://netdoctor.co.uk/">.</a> &#8220;Perhaps go for a run with your friends instead. And suggest an alternative meeting point after work such as someone&#8217;s house or a restaurant. When you do drink, eat first so you&#8217;re not drinking on an empty stomach and try not to get involved in rounds as that way you end up drinking at the speed of the fastest drinker.&#8221;</p>
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<p>January is &#8220;ker-ching!&#8221; time for gyms and health clubs up and down the land. And if we&#8217;re honest about it, the January/February issue of Men&#8217;s Health is traditionally a good seller, too. The reason is obvious. If you conducted a Family Feud survey to find out the number one New Year&#8217;s Resolution, Bert would reveal that &#8220;getting fit&#8221; is the top answer. But our survey says, come March and April, 49 per cent of men have given up their fitness kick. Here are our tips for prolonging that initial burst of fitness fanaticism until it becomes a year-round habit. No missed days, no maybe tomorrows, no excuses. No, really. It&#8217;s Darwin updated: the survival of the fitness regime.</p>
<p><strong>1. THE RESOLUTION: &#8221; I AM GOING TO RUN A MARATHON&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong>In a month&#8217;s time:</strong> you&#8217;ll be able to go for a run without hocking up a lung.</p>
<p><strong>Your stealth move: </strong>chat while you jog.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> conducting a conversation while you run works for two good reasons, says conditioning specialist Michael Mejia. First, making an appointment to go running with a friend encourages you not to procrastinate.<br />
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<p><span id="more-298"></span>And second, researchers at the University of Wisconsin in the US have found that running at a pace at which you can talk is roughly the same as exercising at your &#8220;ventilatory threshold&#8221; (science-speak for being just short of coughing up phlegm).</p>
<p>This means you exercise hard without killing yourself, which is always a bonus. You&#8217;ll soon be leaving Paula Radcliffe in the gutter (if she gets caught short again).</p>
<p><strong>2. THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO TOUCH MY TOES . . . WITHOUT CHEATING&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong>In a month&#8217;s time:</strong> you&#8217;ll be able to sprint for the ball without your hamstring going &#8220;twang&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>Your stealth move:</strong> learn to pull your own leg.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> flexibility works on the principle of use it or lost it. You don&#8217;t have to spend hours in the lotus position on a higher plane of consciousness than everyone else to be as bendy as a Beckham free-kick. You just need to stretch yourself a little and often.</p>
<p>&#8220;Always stretch with warmed-up muscles,&#8221; advises sports-massage therapist Dave Green. Now grab your Swiss ball. &#8220;Sit on the ball with legs straight, feet hip-width apart, heels on the ground and back upright,&#8221; says Green. &#8220;Tense your abs and gently curl your toes up. Keeping your legs straight, slowly lean forward from the hips until you feel a slight stretch. Hold for 30 seconds and then relax. Try this after each time you exercise and you&#8217;ll be more flexible than a happy-go-lucky contortionist.</p>
<p><a href="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-300" title="1" src="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/1.jpg?w=353&#038;h=379" alt="" width="353" height="379" /></a><strong>3. THE RESOLUTION: &#8220;I AM GOING TO GET A SIX-PACK&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong>In a month&#8217;s time:</strong> you&#8217;ll exercise daily.<br />
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Your stealth move:</strong> don&#8217;t join a gym. Yet.</p>
<p><strong>Because:</strong> if there&#8217;s ever a bad time to join a gym, it&#8217;s January. Your short of money, it&#8217;s beautiful outside and the gyms are full of resolution makers.</p>
<p>Added to that, personal trainers cannot give you a tailored program because they&#8217;re overrun with inductions. For now, get a Swiss ball ($39.99,<a href="http://www.rebelsport.com.au/ecom/rebel/default.aspx" target="_blank"> rebelsport.com.au</a>) and a chin-up bar ($39.99, <a href="http://workoutworld.com.au/" target="_blank">workoutworld.com.au</a>) and start your fitness habit at home. A survey for US Men&#8217;s Health revealed when readers skipped a workout, there was a 62 per cent likelihood they would also miss their next session. But if you keep up the workouts on your bedroom floor, then by the time you do join the gym next month, you&#8217;ll have formed a habit that will make you more likely to keep going and make the most of that monthly direct debit. Just think, in 12 month&#8217;s time you could be on the cover of this magazine.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome to the start of the healthiest, fittest, most nutritious and enjoyable year of your life. We&#8217;re going to show you how easily you can keep your New Year&#8217;s resolutions and achieve the amazing goals you&#8217;ve set yourself. New year: new you. At best it&#8217;s triggered by your Tigger-like, start-of-term excitement. At worst it&#8217;s fuelled [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=294&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><strong>Welcome to the start of the healthiest, fittest, most nutritious and enjoyable year of your life. We&#8217;re going to show you how easily you can keep your New Year&#8217;s resolutions and achieve the amazing goals you&#8217;ve set yourself.</strong></p>
<p>New year: new you. At best it&#8217;s triggered by your Tigger-like, start-of-term excitement. At worst it&#8217;s fuelled purely by fear and self-loathing. Whatever the motivation, now&#8217;s the time to set goals for improvement in the year ahead.<br />
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<p>Trouble is, too often goals are over ambitious: &#8220;I&#8217;m going to go to the gym six times a week&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;ll never touch booze&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to bed Scarlett Johansson&#8221;. At Men&#8217;s Health, we believe that small steps = big results. For example, simply by making your own food twice a week, you could lose five kilograms and gain 500; a big result for a small step.</p>
<p>As any convent seamstress will tell you, good habits are hard to make. We&#8217;re all full of good intentions in January, but by February we&#8217;ve given up. It needn&#8217;t be that way. A 2005 study in Health Psychology found new exercisers took five weeks to make sessions stick. The implications are as huge as your biceps are going to be; by the time the next issue of MH comes out, you&#8217;ll have overcome your worst habits and replaced them with healthy ones. Read on and you&#8217;ll discover that it is far from impossible to stick to a healthier lifestyle.</p>
<p>Happy New Year! It&#8217;s going to be your best ever.    <strong><br />
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		<description><![CDATA[Nothing spoils a road trip like a destination. Instead of squabbling over directions, play Columbus: Dedicate at least one weekend to the rush of discovery. All you need is a copilot, a tank full of gas, and a cardinal direction. 2. Any chump can put a char on a sausage This summer, use your grill [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=283&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Nothing spoils a road trip like a destination. Instead of squabbling over directions, play Columbus: Dedicate at least one weekend to the rush of discovery. All you need is a copilot, a tank full of gas, and a cardinal direction.</p>
<p>2. Any chump can put a char on a sausage This summer, use your grill to coax flame-kissed flavors out of succulent fruits, vegetables, desserts, and salads.</p>
<p>3. Shirts may be optional in the summer months, but sleeves are nonnegotiable when you&#8217;re more than 100 feet away from a stretch of sand or a gym. It&#8217;s okay to be proud of your guns, but we don&#8217;t need to see them as you perform 12-ounce curls at the picnic.</p>
<p>4. Rainy summer Sundays call for DIY projects, not TV marathons. Flip open the garage door and overhaul your bike. Or settle in and research your family tree. A part-time purpose can give you full-time satisfaction.</p>
<p>5. A tan should be the sum of your summer experiences, not a bullet point on your weekend to-do list. Skip the easy-bake ovens and earn your tan with rides, runs, and swims.<br />
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6. Summer cardio shouldn&#8217;t require a three-pronged plug. Sure, there&#8217;s a kJ counter on the treadmill. But you can measure effort by sweat wrung out of your shirt, too.</p>
<p>7. Gnarly toes are more Larry the Cable Guy than Charles Bronson. Sure, a pedicure pains the soul. But funky feet frighten the fairer sex, Sasquatch. If you&#8217;re sporting damaged digits, suck it up and slink into the local spa.</p>
<p>8. Broke students only have a few months to scrape together beer money for the year. Tip generously and that barista or bartender may even have enough left over for books.</p>
<p><a href="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/15-ways-to-have-the-best-summer-ever-1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-285" title="15 Ways to Have the Best Summer Ever 1" src="http://koolcorner.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/15-ways-to-have-the-best-summer-ever-1.jpg?w=150&#038;h=120" alt="" width="150" height="120" /></a>9. No one likes a backseat barbecuer. Step away from the charcoal, interloper. There&#8217;s a one-man-per-grill quota, and unless you&#8217;re delivering a stack of cheese singles, a fresh beer, or a bag of buns, the cooler needs refilling.</p>
<p>10. Doing a quick round of pushups just to pump up your beach muscles is vanity. Have the foresight to fit in a full morning workout before hitting the beach. Sure, you look good. This way, you feel good, too.</p>
<p>11. Supermodels date surfers, not boogie boarders. So rent a foam-top long board for a day. You may not be hanging 10 right away, but at least you won&#8217;t find yourself facedown in a sand castle of shame after overshooting the surf.</p>
<p>12. Arriving empty-handed at a gathering is as classy as leaving with a garbage bag full of leftovers. Bring something you&#8217;re proud to claim and willing to leave behind (like a microbrew summer ale).</p>
<p>13. A water park is one giant DNA lost and found. Unless you enjoy marinating in a stew of lost bandages and scabs, grab a rope swing and hit the local swimming hole instead.</p>
<p>14. Lift the blinders, rock star. Sunglasses should shield you from dangerous UV light, not partners in conversation. Nothing screams &#8220;asshole&#8221; like someone shoving a cart around Target as if a supernova were looming around every corner.</p>
<p>15. Sex on the beach is a disappointment-and we&#8217;re talking about both the drink and the act itself. That said, both should be tried at least once a summer, and with full gusto. Bottoms up!</p>
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		<title>Pushy Parent Tra</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 18:30:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Boxing matches that end in tragedy often share a terrible common factor. History has shown that the cornerman in these bouts often turns out to be the father of the injured boxer. Yet for some reason he doesn&#8217;t throw in the towel until it&#8217;s too late. Outside the ring, the effects of pushing your child [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=koolcorner.wordpress.com&amp;blog=10922240&amp;post=280&amp;subd=koolcorner&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Boxing matches that end in tragedy often share a terrible common factor. History has shown that the cornerman in these bouts often turns out to be the father of the injured boxer. Yet for some reason he doesn&#8217;t throw in the towel until it&#8217;s too late.</p>
<p>Outside the ring, the effects of pushing your child too hard are unlikely to be so drastic. But parental ambition can still cause problems if you start piling pressure onto your kids.</p>
<p>&#8220;Some kids will start to rebel or self-sabotage when they realise they can&#8217;t achieve what they&#8217;re being asked to,&#8221; says psychologist Ian Wallace. &#8220;They may also start thinking their relationship with their dad is based on achievement rather than unconditional love.&#8221;</p>
<p>So how do you balance your aspirations with being a supportive dad? After all, everyone wants the best for their kids.<br />
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<strong><span id="more-280"></span>SWINGS AND ROUNDABOUTS</strong></p>
<p>The playground should be a place of fun. But that&#8217;s not the case when pushy parents muscle in to assert their kid&#8217;s rights in the sandpit. Fathers should instead aim to play a more discreet role while acknowledging the benefits of non-competitive play.<br />
&#8220;Stress how great it is to have mates to play and have fun with,&#8221; says Wallace.</p>
<p>If you must step in to stop a fight, tread carefully. &#8220;Don&#8217;t intervene and rescue your child or blame others,&#8221; advises Wallace. &#8220;Focus on the whole group and say something like, ‘Hey, looks like everyone isn&#8217;t playing nicely, let&#8217;s all try to be fair and give everyone a turn.&#8217; &#8220;</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>BALANCE THE BOOKS</strong></span></p>
<p>It&#8217;s natural to want your child to be successful. But agonising over every test score won&#8217;t make school life much fun.</p>
<p>&#8220;Direct kids towards making their best effort rather than just focusing on their grades,&#8221; says Wallace. &#8220;Recognise your child&#8217;s individual strengths and keep life balance, not just stressing school, but also exercise, social interaction, relaxation and rest.&#8221;<br />
And don&#8217;t despair if your kid isn&#8217;t an academic hotshot. &#8220;Many successful people didn&#8217;t achieve highly at school exams,&#8221; says Wallace. &#8220;Think of Kerry Packer and Richard Branson.&#8221;</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>STAY ONSIDE</strong></span></p>
<p>Your dodgy knee may have wrecked your deluded hopes of playing top-flight footy. But don&#8217;t try to live out your sporting dreams through your kids.</p>
<p>&#8220;Never be a sideline critic or ‘ugly parent&#8217;, abusing referees and screaming at players,&#8221; says Wallace. &#8220;You should also leave coaching to the team coaches &#8211; don&#8217;t over-analyse or critique in the car.&#8221;</p>
<p>If you want your kids to enjoy exercise then ditch the win-at-all-costs mentality. &#8220;Always praise good efforts and acknowledge improvement wherever you can,&#8221; advises Wallace.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>WORKING IT OUT</strong></span></p>
<p>Expecting your son or daughter to rocket up the career ladder as soon as they&#8217;ve started their first apprenticeship is simply unrealistic. Joining the workforce is a major life transition. &#8220;Disclose your own struggles getting used to work and making novice mistakes,&#8221; says Wallace. &#8220;Reassure your kids that everyone struggles at first.&#8221;<br />
Look out for common problems like fatigue and performance fears. &#8220;Don&#8217;t lecture or preach,&#8221; warns Wallace. &#8220;Listen first and see where you can help.&#8221;</p>
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